Friday, January 8, 2010

It's eight o'clock and all is well

Okay, maybe not all...

Little Sister did keep us awake last night from 2:15 until after 5, and is currently still fussing and fighting sleep. She asked me to put her in her bed. I guess she changed her mind...


But almost all is well.

The van is back home, parked in the garage where it should be. Hubby walked down to get it this afternoon and watched a few other cars make it safely uphill before he drove home.

The streets are actually clear. No one thought they would thaw, but I'm pretty sure no one expected the sun to shine all day either. It did. I've had solar-themed Beatles songs running through my head all day.

Big Sister earned two stars on her Santa chart today. This was due to a combination of my trying very hard to find some positive things on which to focus, and a brilliant effort by Big Sis. The child even fell asleep during naptime, then woke up and went to the bathroom by herself, and then- get this- went back to sleep on her own! This is unprecedented.

The long naptime meant that I was able to shower and finish my sermon message for Sunday Night when the staff wives lead the worship service. And waste a bunch of time looking at LOLCats. Yes, I did just admit that. They're so silly!

We all ate dinner at the table at the same time tonight.

And I think Little Sister might finally be asleep.



Sigh.

All is well.

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Why the South is afraid of snow...

All week, we've been hearing we'd get snow sometime this afternoon. Many schools went ahead and closed- even though weather.com only posted a 50% chance. Others waited until the first few flakes began to fall, and then immediately began sending children home.

Hubby and I rolled our eyes (he had the day off) and then got in the car. The girls go to the church Child Development Center on Thursdays, and the CDC follows the local school district. So we went to pick them up at noon. I was supposed to get lots done today, because I didn't have to work (but I did) and they were supposed to be in school all day (but they weren't). I have been longing for snow, but this was not the best day for it!

AND, by the time we picked up our kiddos, the snowfall was tapering off. Around 3 or 4 (when most of the kids would have been home from school, I might add) it started to pick up again. It began sticking to the driveways, and accumulating in the grass, and then finally dusting the roads. The girls were taking late naps, and Hubby and I started moving furniture. We decided we needed a bookshelf, and he wanted to be able to build them tonight.

I told him I wasn't sure. I said I had a bad feeling. But we are Northerners! We're not supposed to be afraid of a light snow! So after the girls got up & had a snack, we headed out. We got some great shelves for either side of our fire place, quickly picked up a few other things including some groceries for dinner, and headed home. We noted that we had the entire shopping center to ourselves and joked that it was the perfect time to shop. The roads by the mall and most of the way home were in great shape.

But getting into our subdivision is what worried me all along. People slide down our hill when it rains. Ice and snow would have to make it a little more difficult, right? But we've lived here for four years, and we've never had a problem or seen any reason to actually call off school. Like my hubs said, it's like the boy who cried "snow."Could it really be that bad?

Sure enough, when we turned in, there were lines of cars waiting to chance driving up the hill. We watched a few failed attempts, and even fewer successes. Finally, our turn came. Like the little engine that could, we chugged up the hill and made it... about halfway. We could go no further, and then we started to slide backwards.

I can think of only a few times in my life when I was more scared than at that moment- looking behind us, past my two little girls, out the rear window at an SUV who had parked on the side of the road. We were headed straight for it, but somehow Hubby (or God!) helped us miss it, slide down a little more and land almost gently against a curb. We pulled into a neighbor's yard (where three other cars were already parking) and tried to figure out what to do.

Eventually, we bundled up the girls, grabbed the groceries, and started walking. It was probably about a half a mile. At one point, Big Sis said her toes were "like Frosty." We got home, pulled off our wet shoes and clothing, made a quick plate of nachos for dinner and sat by the fire.

We discovered the difference between Ohio and here.

You ready?

SALT.

A neighbor told us that they don't ever come salt the neighborhood, or many of the roads around here. And that our van might be sitting right where it is until the temp gets above freezing- which won't be until Monday. MONDAY!

And THAT is why people around here freak out about a few flakes.

Seriously, there is not enough on the ground for us to make snow angels or even make snowballs. But we could be stranded for three more days.

We learned, the hard way, a healthy respect for snow in the South. I'm so thankful that we weren't hurt. I'm kicking myself that we could have put the girls in any danger. And I'm not completely distraught at the idea of all four of us being all snugly snowed in together, although Big Sis is still showing her ahem strong-willed side.

But mostly, I'm just mad nobody told me about the salt. Or lack thereof.

Or maybe I'm mad that nobody seems to have told the people in charge down here about it!

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Big Sister and the Barbie Vet Set, once again...

I promise, this Barbie Vet stuff is going to be the undoing of me. Or at least my sanity.

If somehow you don't know what I mean, you can read about it here.

Or here.

Or here.

As I type this, Big Sister is in her room, reading. She has been confined there for the rest of the morning. Because a small squabble with her sister over a toy turned into time out, which turned into talking back in time out ("ARGH! How many hours?!" in her best 13-year-old girl voice) which turned into being sent to her room, which turned into screaming and trying to punch me. Yes, punch me.

Lots of time, a little yelling, several toys being taken away, and a few swats on her backside later and she is quietly reading in her room.

(Yes, I did just admit that we're spanking. I'm even reading Dobson, which is like Dobson reading Al Franken, but desperate times call for desperate- or at least thorough- measures. It is not without much debate and prayerful consideration that we've come to this conclusion. More on this another day.)

The truth is, the behavior at our house has not improved since before Christmas. Sure, she does a few sweet things in order to try to earn her new toy. But the attitude, the defiance, the hurting her sister & us- those things haven't changed much.

So now the question comes back again. Should she get this toy?

If we hadn't said from the very beginning that it was contingent on good behavior, the answer would be obvious. Why not keep it?

If she hadn't received numerous warnings about her behavior, including warnings about getting (and then earning) this toy from Santa, it wouldn't be a big deal.

If she hadn't had a fantastic day at school yesterday, making me realize that she can in fact behave in her wonderfully sweet demeanor when she feels like it, I wouldn't be writing about this right now.

But we have. And she has. And she did. And now I'm trying to sort out my options. I don't want us to be the parents who cancelled Christmas (if you don't watch Modern Family, you should, it is huh-larious.) But I also don't want to be the parents who make empty threats and have inconsistent expectations.

Today, when I reminded Big Sister about it, I thought it would help her to stop and obey. Instead, she began throwing an even bigger tantrum, jumping up & down and yelling "I want it" Veruca-Salt-style.

There is ONE big rule in our house about things we want: If you throw a fit or whine for it, you can't have it. Period. Big Sister has mostly obeyed- or at least understood- this rule for over two years now.

She isn't leaving me very many options to sort.

I never meant for this to be such a big deal. In fact, if we could go back & do it over again, I think we'd do it a little differently. But since it IS such a big deal now, I want to see this thing through. And I need some sage advice from my friends & family to feel good about it.

What do you all think?

Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Say cheese





I tried a little Mckmama style photoshop action on that last one. I've never done anything more than crop the pictures on this blog. I only have a point & click camera, so I just do what I can. This was my first attempt at real "enhancing," so be honest- how does it look? Is the background TOO blurry? Should I just leave it alone?

Monday, January 4, 2010

Dog tired

Do the holidays wear you out?

I love Christmas, but it's an exhausting combination of long to-do lists, hectic schedules, late nights, traveling and interrupted sleep. And when it is all over, you have lots of laundry to do, new toys to cram into the toys boxes, and loads of Christmas decorations to take down. And getting out of bed is so hard when it is colder & darker than ever.

The girls have both been taking looooong naps each afternoon and sleeping fitfully at night. And boy are they CRABBY! We're just now getting back into the routine and catching up on sleep.

Hubby went back to work this morning, and I know it was rough. He has meetings practically all day, and his Upward league starts practicing tonight.

And then there are the dogs...

well...




Yep. We're all a little worn out around here.


*Note: I went back and made this photo black and white because I think it is a little less disturbing that way. You know, just in case you saw it earlier & were wondering...

Sunday, January 3, 2010

Song for Sunday: Hope, Coffee & Melody


New Day
by Robbie Seay Band

I'm gonna sing this song
To let you know that you're not alone
And if you're like me
You need hope, coffee, and melody
So sit back down
Let the world keep spinning ‘round
For yesterday's gone and today is waiting on you to show your face

It might not be
The prettiest thing that you'll ever see
But it’s a new day, oh baby, it’s a new day
And it might not look like
A beautiful sunrise
But it's a new day, oh baby, it’s a new day

I’m a pilgrim soul
I've traveled far and come back home
This land is hard and cold
For those who long to love
And I know it might seem
That the world is crumbling
But it’s me and you dancing in the kitchen at 2 am
And we're still alive

It’s the calm of the storm that comes blowing in
It’s the springtime saying I'm back again
The clouds that roll by
Crossing moonlight
Me and you love – everything's alright
Standing in the rain with nowhere to go
Laughing and we're spinning and I hope that you
Remember this day
For the rest of your life
Me and you love – everything’s gonna be alright

And it just might be
The prettiest thing that you'll ever see
It’s a new day
Oh baby, it’s a new day
If you look outside
To see a beautiful sunrise
It’s a new day



"Because of the LORD's great love we are not consumed, for his compassions never fail. They are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." (Lamentations 3:22 & 23) Here's to fresh starts. Happy New Year!

Robbie Seay Band - New Day Lyrics @ LyricsTime.com

Saturday, January 2, 2010

Getting back to blogging...

I've had so many blog topics running through my head lately. Unfortunately, they didn't get far because it was WAY to crowded in there.

SO, I think I'll try to get back into the swing of things- getting those ideas into posts. NOT as a New Year's resolution- that would be the kiss of death as I never keep those things. But just as a late Christmas gift to myself. This crazy old blog is really for me, anyway- to keep my jumbled thoughts straight and keep a record of these wonderfully wild days of young kids and big ideas. If you find it amusing or enlightening, well, that's just an added bonus!

Many of the things I wanted to write about had to do with Christmas, so I'm going to be backdating a bit. Basically anything between the 19th and this post has been added after the fact. You know, just for the sake of full disclosure. Yes, to myself, for a time in a few months when I've forgotten that I did this.

I'm also trying to catch up on my blog reading. Anybody have any new blogs to share for the new year?