Tuesday, August 31, 2010

I'm baaaack...

Wow. It has been a long time since I posted.

Things have been crazy around here- we've been all sorts of busy. But before I tell you what we've been doing, here is what I have not been doing:
  • blogging (obviously)
  • cooking much of anything more than hot dogs, lean cuisines or toast
  • yoga (I think my "down dog" got up and wandered off)
  • loving my homemade dish detergent (that bobo stuff stopped working about two weeks after this post, and I finally gave in and bought some Finish tabs at Bi-Lo)
  • watching anything currently on television other than a little PBS kids in the morning
  • sleeping enough
  • eating well (duh, see the second one)
  • keeping my house immaculately clean
  • cutting out coupons (gasp!) or shopping to stockpile
  • grocery shopping at all other than the bare necessities
BUT, here's what I have been doing instead:
  • keeping up with Big Sister's new kindergarten routine- checking folders, signing forms, sending money (all. the. time. for PTA or field trips or lunch or ice cream. I thought public school would be cheap!) researching and deciding to put her on the bus to come home, meeting her at the bus stop after school, clipping box tops, etc. I'm not actually doing too badly at this whole elementary school mom thing.
  • hitting snooze. I've never been a "snooze button" type of girl. Hopefully I'll break this new habit now that things are settling down.
  • watching my trees explode with fruit. Our Asian pear tree (which I thought was going to die this summer) has yielded the most pears I've ever seen. They are very mild in flavor but so crisp and juicy. And they keep in the fridge for like 4 months! Our Jujube (Chinese date) trees are also bursting (and bending) with fruit. I'm hoping now that things are starting to slow down, I'll be able to do something with them. I know I'll make another big batch of jujube butter, but I'm thinking I'll still have some left. Anyone have a dehydrator I can use?

  • charging my stupid phone non-stop and still listening to it buzz or chirp that I have a dying battery. I hate my phone and am looking forward to getting a new (to me) one very soon!
  • helping my big girl ride her new big girl bike. She's still using the training wheels, but just getting the hang of the thing has taken a little while.
  • starting a new session of Mom's Morning Out in a brand new room. Brand new. Like, painting and assembling furniture and moving all sorts of toys into place kind of stuff. In fact, it is still a work in progress. But it is a great space. And I had some great helpers.
  • watching The West Wing with my hubby at night (when we had time). We both have never watched this amazing series and borrowed the dvds from a friend. I can't believe what we've been missing!
  • mopping up suds after I tried desperately to get my homemade detergent (see above) to work by using WAY too much. Total Bobby Brady moment.
  • having breakfast with a ballerina (and otherwise spending time with my little one now that Big Sis is at school every day).
  • rehearsing. This is the big reason life has been so hectic. We've been gearing up for our production of Godspell, which was this past weekend. It was so much fun. And so much work. Hubby and I were both in it- he was Jesus and had to basically memorize most of the book of Matthew and sing like four solos. I just got to act goofy and sing. The turn out wasn't spectacular, but we did have lots of house guests come to see it! Both hubby's and my parents came, as did Aunt Lala. The girls, of course, loved visiting with everyone, and I think they all enjoyed the show.
My husband dancing!

Our wonderful cast!
  • thinking about blogging. And all of my bloggy friends. Seriously. I've missed having the time to sit down and process things with all of you, reading your wit and wisdom, etc. Instead I've become addicted (all over again) to the quick fix of facebook status updates and comments.
Ooh! I just got an idea for tomorrow's post.

'til then...



PS it's good to be back :)

Monday, August 9, 2010

Big Sister's Big Week!

Well, not only do we have a kindergartner in our house, but she is also now a five-year-old kindergartner!!!

This week has been a very busy one for Big Sister. Her first day of school on Thursday went wonderfully. She was ready- she went right in and barely gave us a second glance. In fact, since there were no prolonged goodbyes, the only picture we snapped was of her sitting down and getting to work:


The next day was her actual birthday, so we had cupcakes again. I have to say, even though it makes for a hectic week, there is no better way to win friends in kindergarten than to have a birthday and feed them all cupcakes and Capri Sun on the second day of school!

Nana and Papa came down for the weekend, and we all went out that evening to celebrate Big Sister. When we asked where she wanted to go, her first choice was McDonalds (Um... no. And besides, we've had that WAY more lately than I'm willing to admit on this blog) but her next choice was somewhere she could get "white spaghetti noodles" (alfredo). Big Sister had her birthday dinner at Olive Garden- she is my daughter, after all.

The next day we spent some more time with Nana & Papa, and they watched the girls so Mommy & Daddy could have kid-free time with some friends. Then Sunday was another party for family and church friends. We went to the Nature Center and hung out in the treehouse.

We had a scavenger hunt and an animal ambassador (an adorable little screech owl)...


and of course cake.


I made little fairy homes out of random edible things.


They were a little (okay, a lot) silly, but the kids seemed to like them.

The heat made them all get a little weepy, and I forgot the forks. Nice. But that didn't stop us!


I think the kids all enjoyed themselves. I had a lot of fun. But it was really, really hot.

Just look at how sweaty Big Sister was in the gift shop at the end of the afternoon!


Thanks to everyone who made Big Sister's birthday so special- those of you who withstood the heat and those of you who sent her wishes from other places. We love that so many people love our sweet girl.

PS- Sorry these pictures aren't the greatest. I still can't really edit my photos, but I still wanted to share.

Sunday, August 8, 2010

Song for Sunday: strange and bitter crop...

Today's song is not of the usual "uplifting" variety, though it is inspiring in the sense that we have much to learn and remember from our nation's past. It started with this article from NPR about the anniversary of the horrendous events that are said to have inspired this song. The article, the lyrics, the reality are haunting...


Strange Fruit
written by Lewis Allan
most famously performed by Billie Holiday

Southern trees bear strange fruit
Blood on the leaves and blood at the root
Black bodies swinging in the southern breeze
Strange fruit hanging from the poplar trees.

Pastoral scene of the gallant south
The bulging eyes and the twisted mouth
Scent of magnolias, sweet and fresh
Then the sudden smell of burning flesh.

Here is fruit for the crows to pluck
For the rain to gather, for the wind to suck
For the sun to rot, for the trees to drop
Here is a strange and bitter crop.

Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Open house, open mind

This has been a whirlwind day. It was Big Sister's last day of preschool. Daddy says he got a little teary-eyed when he watched the girls hug and signed her in, realizing that it would be a while before they were in the same school again. We've been so spoiled, both working at the church and seeing the girls in the hallway or peeking in their rooms whenever we wanted. Now Big Sister will be at a different school.

Because her birthday is later this week, we went ahead and celebrated with her preschool class today. It was bittersweet, watching the kids sing to her- kids we've watched grow up since the time Big Sis started at the center before she turned two. Some of them we'll see on soccer teams or the occasional run-in. But they'll never again be the important part of her life that they have been for the last three years.

She'll know absolutely no one at her new school. I think it scares her, but probably not as much as it scares me. I wish I could turn the teacher part of my brain off- the one that knows how mean kids can be, how scary the big kid hall can seem, how lonely some kids seem even in a roomful of classmates. I've been praying for this transition, for her teacher, for her friends. I have faith in God's provision and protection. I have faith in my spunky, friendly, compassionate kiddo.

But I'm freaked out. I don't feel very prepared. I've poured over the packet they handed us at Open House this evening, but there are still a million questions left unanswered. There is a kindergarten parent meeting on August 17th, to teach us about rules and procedures and all of that fun stuff. But what do we do for the two weeks our kids attend school before then? I don't "wing it" very well.

And then there are the things upon which I refuse to let myself dwell- trying to discern what kind of teacher this new woman will be, thinking that there wasn't much room for play in that kindergarten classroom, hoping Big Sis isn't bored since she is already reading at a 2nd or 3rd grade level, praying I get my head together enough to sign and return papers, send lunch money, pack snacks, and get her to school by 7:50 every day... you get the point. I'm trying not to doubt myself or anyone/thing else before giving us all a chance to succeed at this kindergarten thing. I'm going to keep an open mind. Or at least I'm going to try.

Tomorrow is my last weekday home with both of my girls until Labor day. Thursday, Big Sister begins a new stage in her life, and, really, so do I. Who knows what it will bring? Maybe we'll be GREAT at this elementary school gig.

The future is wide open.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Song for Sunday: I cry out

I will lift my eyes
by Bebo Norman

God, my God, I cry out
Your beloved needs You now
God, be near, calm my fear
And take my doubt

Your kindness is what pulls me up
Your love is all that draws me in

I will lift my eyes to the Maker
Of the mountains I can't climb
I will lift my eyes to the Calmer
Of the oceans raging wild
I will lift my eyes to the Healer
Of the hurt I hold inside
I will lift my eyes, lift my eyes to You

God, my God, let mercy sing
Her melody over me
And God, right here all I bring
Is all of me

Your kindness is what pulls me up
Your love is all that draws me in

I will lift my eyes to the Maker
Of the mountains I can't climb
I will lift my eyes to the Calmer
Of the oceans raging wild
I will lift my eyes to the Healer
Of the hurt I hold inside
I will lift my eyes, lift my eyes to You

'Cause You are and You were and You will be forever
The Lover I need to save me
'Cause You fashioned the earth and You hold it together, God
So hold me now

I will lift my eyes to the Maker
Of the mountains I can't climb
I will lift my eyes to the Calmer
Of the oceans raging wild
I will lift my eyes to the Healer
Of the hurt I hold inside
I will lift my eyes, lift my eyes to You
I will lift my eyes, lift my eyes to You

God, my God, I cry out:
Your beloved needs You now...