Today Little Sister had tubes put in her ears and her adenoids removed. I know it's a very common, even "routine" procedure, but it was a big deal to us!
Aside from some helpful advice from a few friends who have been through this and the extremely vague information the ENT gave us when we scheduled the surgery, I had no idea what to expect. I was relieved when I found out that she could eat breakfast this morning, although she had to be finished before 7 AM. Then she could have clear liquids until 10. She handled it all pretty well until about 10:30, when she and Big Sis usually have a little 2nd breakfast. Yeah, we're hobbits like that.
Fortunately, we had to pick up Hubby and be at the hospital by 12, so I distracted her with getting dressed, loading up the car and traveling. Right before we got to the hospital, though, she got upset again. Little cries of "I hung-ee. I want candy!" kept coming from the back seat.
At the hospital she forgot about food as she took in everything. I love children's hospitals because they think of
everything. There were no rough transitions as we shuffled through registration rooms and waiting rooms- there was always something new to point out. Even the step-on scale had toys hanging on it so she had to step up on it to get a closer look.
When we got into our family waiting room, she started to get a little frantic again. This room, the one in which we spent most of our time, was actually the sparsest room of them all. I brought along a few toys to keep her distracted, but when they stopped working a nurse came to the rescue with some cool Vtech toys.
We talked to everyone under the sun. Our nurse, a nurse from the anesthesia team, our ENT, the anesthesiologist, etc. etc. etc. Little Sis looked like she was taking in everyone and everything, but she was still getting restless. Then they gave her some Tylenol with Codeine and a sedative, and while we let the drugs kick in we finally convinced her to let us change her into the snappy hospital gown. She was relaxing, even wobbling, as she sat on the bed and played with her toys, but she still freaked out when they started to wheel the bed away. I had to carry her into the next room.
But soon, the sedative worked its magic. My sweet baby put her head on my shoulder and said something like, "I think it's bedtime." I cuddled her and prayed for her safety and cherished the moment. Okay, I cried a little.
Then a man on the anesthesia team said it was time to take her. I lifted her up to him and she didn't cry at all. She just looked at him with a somewhat confused but mostly blank stare. And wobbled into his arms. And just like that, we went back to wait.
People say the procedure is really quick, and it is. The doctor came back to report to us (and told us there was infection
again in both ears) after probably a half an hour. But since her adenoids were removed, she had to have a breathing tube and recovery took a little longer.
When they finally called me to go back into the recovery room, I was not completely prepared for everything going on. She was very agitated and wanted nothing more than to remove her IV and toe monitor. Her cry had a seal-ish sound to it and her breathing had the croup strider, results of the breathing tube, and I had to wrestle her while they gave her a breathing treatment. Even after we left and went back to our family recovery room- even after they took out that blasted IV- she still was really agitated and almost inconsolable. I tried my best, and when the nurse brought us a popsicle, she finally quieted down and ate it, laying on my chest, her eyes fluttering closed as she slowly chewed each little bite.
When the popsicle was gone, she got fired up again, but by then Daddy had returned from grabbing lunch, so I let him work his magic. He has always been better at getting Little Sis to go to sleep when she is worked up. She slept until we woke her to check vitals, change her clothes, and head for home.
Her second "awakening" was much smoother. Although she was still groggy, there was no crying. And when we asked her if she wanted to go home, she whispered her precious, "yes" and helped us get her dressed. As we walked out of the room, she turned and called, "Bye Bed!" I asked her to tell the nurses "bye" too and she slipped back into her sleepy whisper. As we left the unit I heard them talking about how adorable she was.
She slept all the way home, but when we got home she wanted to eat and play. She had her favorite (applejacks) and insisted on walking (and jumping) all around the house even though her footing wasn't exactly steady. She stayed awake until bedtime came, and then she was restless and clingy.
I don't know how the rest of her recovery will go, but the first day is amazing. I wasn't sure if we were doing the right thing by putting her through this, but now I'm convinced by the fact that she did so well combined with the realization that we would have been back in the pediatrician's office later this week with double ear infections if we hadn't.
Here's hoping the rest of the road goes smoothly. I'm very thankful for our friends & family who have been thinking of and praying for our Little Sister. And SUPER thankful for my mom & dad for coming down to help out.
We'll keep you posted! (whether you want to be or not, really... ;)