Earlier this week, I stumbled across an article about ESPN blogger and ex-NBA player Paul Shirley who wrote a
rather insensitive post that included a letter to Haiti from "
The rest of the world." He said he had not, nor planned to, give anything to the relief effort basically because the responsibility to rebuild (and for the island being poorly built in the first place) lies with the victims. He admitted this would be a controversial idea, because most people were giving to the relief efforts "unconditionally." He also used an analogy about being a caveman who built his house too close to the river. Here's what he said:
Imagining what would happen next is easier than imagining me carrying a caveman’s club. If I were lucky enough to survive the roaring waters that took my hut, my tribesmen would say, “Building next to the river was pretty dumb, wasn’t it?.” Or, if I weren’t so lucky, they’d say, “At least we don’t have to worry about that moron anymore.”He admits that we're supposed to be more civilized than cavemen, but still questions those who "chose" to live in the conditions of pre-earthquake Haiti, especially if they return to living in them now, in post-earthhquake Haiti.
Yeah. Because that's a choice everyone deliberately makes.Towards the end of his post, he responds to the well-publicized quote by a Haitian mother of two who said she didn't know who was responsible to help, but that it was direly needed. He writes:
I don’t know whose responsibility it is, either. What I do know is that it is not the responsibility of the outside world to provide help. It’s nice if we do, but it is not a requirement, especially when people choose to influence their own existences negatively...
Then today I am flipping through Hubby's Time Magazine and find a quote from South Carolina's Lt. Governor (and gubernatorial candidate) Andre Bauer. Speaking of welfare and other social programs he said,
"My grandmother was not a highly educated woman, but she told me as a small child to quit feeding stray animals. You know why? Because they breed."
As a person who vowed a long time ago to take care of stray children and animals, I didn't even know how to respond to this at first. I went to Bauer's website, read his statement of "regret, " and pondered some more. One article I read especially struck a nerve with its next-to-last sentence: That message "has been a staple" of social conservatives and evangelicals who believe personal responsibility is a key both to salvation and success...Wait,
what?!? Maybe this is where I stray off course from many evangelicals, but I always thought salvation had
NOTHING to do with
ANYTHING I could do. I know I am personally responsible for accepting the grace offered to me through Jesus Christ. But anything else- well, apart from Him, I can do
NOTHING.
That's my problem with these two timely statements. I don't really care if they are politically incorrect (though Shirley asking the Haitians to
"maybe use a condom once in a while" is about as insensitive as can be). And I don't really care about the personal opinions of two men I have never met. But if they are speaking for, in one case, "the rest of the world" and especially in another, for evangelical Christians,
I object.
If someone chooses not to help someone else because they are a fiscal conservative, because that's
how they roll politically, so be it. But to seriously justify
not helping someone as "voting your values" or taking the evangelical Christian platform, something has to be a little off. I'm getting tired of the same people who push to have evolution taken out of schools making political and even personal statements of near social darwinism- survival of the fittest. It seems silly to me to believe that God created
everyone in His image and then believe that some people just go further, and therefore are
worth more. That some of them are just "morons" who built their shacks too close to a river (or on a fault line) and deserve whatever they get. (
By the way, we don't have the time or the space to even begin dissecting how those who make up the majority of Haitians came to be on the island, but their ancestors didn't land there on a pleasure cruise). Sometimes the best life lessons are results of our choices. I get that. I studied & implemented logical consequences as an educator. I understand the value in learning from our mistakes. But I also (or at least I'm trying to) understand grace. Which flies in the face of all logic. Which turns consequences into opportunities for sacrifice and love.
There is a difference between letting a person see something as a mistake- helping another human being to learn from and try not to repeat the consequences- and
leaving someone to die in them. Fortunately for us, Christ chose not to do the latter. Unfortunately for us, many believers are bearing more of a resemblance to the "
unmerciful servant" than we are to Christ.
I think it is time to realize that in some sense
we are all strays. We all have made mistakes that should cost us our lives. None of us started off any better than the others when it comes to living God's way. None of us deserves any more than the next guy. None of us can
do anything to earn favor with God. God loves us
unconditionally (there's that word again, Mr. Shirley). It is grace and love and mercy and compassion that save us- not our "personal responsibility."
People looking at tragedies like the earthquake in Haiti like to say, "There but for the grace of God, go I."And for good reason. We know, deep down, that we don't deserve our good fortune. Anything I have or do or survive is soley a gift of God's grace- one that I don't quite understand and just humbly and gratefully accept.
I don't deserve to be sitting here, typing on my computer in my heated home, listening to my healthy children sleep upstairs, while not far from here mothers wait to see if the bodies of their children will ever be separated from the giant pile of rubble that used to be a house. Sure, I went to college. I studied. I have a part time job outside of the home and a husband who works hard. But at the end of the day, what plays the biggest role in separating
me from
her is something I had no control over: where, and to whom, I was born.
Sure, there are amazing stories of people pulling themselves up by their bootstraps, overcoming their situations and becoming "something". I
love those kinds of stories. But it's important to keep a few things in mind when we hear them. For one, to God, they already
were "something"- just because He loved & made them.
For another, in order to make "something" of yourself, you have to
believe it is possible. I have a very intelligent friend, and a very intelligent and successful relative, who are both fiscal conservatives. Both have great stories. My friend often says he believes you can do anything in America with just a library card. But I would argue that you also need someone to take you to the library- at least at first. As a teacher I saw first hand kids who had very little promise of a healthy or successful future- not simply because they were poor or couldn't read well, but because
no one was in their life telling them that they were valuable. That they
could succeed. As their teacher, I tried, but the pressures of testing and the limited time available for me to tutor individually left me sometimes more of a
discourager as I handed them D's & F's and sent home papers that would return, again & again, without the signature of even one person who would be responsible for them.
Oh yeah, one more thing... It's pretty hard to pick yourself up by your bootstraps if hunger has zapped you of the physical strength to even lift up your head. Sound like I'm exaggerating? I wish I were. About 25,000 people die
every day from hunger related causes. 16,000 of them are children.
Pretty hard to blame them for bringing it on themselves.See, you know what happens if you don't feed strays? Either they move on and find food and shelter somewhere else, or they die.
They die. And basically, what I'm understanding is that, to many, even some Christians, that is ok. Well, it's not ok in God's eyes. If he cares about each sparrow that falls, I'm pretty sure the catastrophic death of hundreds of thousands- and even the slow starvation of one- of His children is
not ok. I'd go so far as to say that standing by and doing nothing would be a sin.
And this whole idea that strays "breed"? Sure, if you just toss a little food out on the porch, you might get a few more visitors the next day. Of course, if you do what we did with our dog Sophie, if you take that stray and make her a member of your family, you change her whole life. Isn't that the job of the church? Only, our talk of "personal responsibility" and "prosperity gospel" is turning many away as sharply as kicking a cat. They set out to find someone else simply to
feed them. And to the chagrin of many of my more conservative brothers & sisters, that someone else is often the government.
Do I think people take advantage of the generosity of others? Of course. Do I worry that some of the current social programs in our country encourage people to stay where they are and feed off of the system? At times. There are people in my life today that I have seen taking advantage of their family, friends and church while they continue to make selfish financial decisions. It troubles me. I understand the importance of being responsible for yourself and your family.
But more than that I feel a genuine responsibility for myself & all believers to step up and love our neighbors. To do what Jesus talks about in the
parable of the sheep & the goats. To clothe the naked. To feed the hungry. To welcome them in to God's family and show them, not how to "be something," but that they already
are something.
And
then, as brothers & sisters in Christ, we can encourage and even rebuke each other with regards to responsibility and wise choices and taking care of ourselves (and that
should be happening with those previously mentioned people I know).
And we can encourage each other in our responsibility to
serve and care for all of God's children.
Which is what I am hoping I have done with this long, soapbox-post.
